Want to include after marriage of before marriage 3 element

Young men and women should marry, look to whether have the essential factor of tripartite face: It is passionate level go up; 2 it is the friendly feeling on affection and self-identity feeling, include habits and customs to wait; 3 it is the cognizance on rational level, feel OK spend lifetime in all with the other side, whether did feeling arrive to be not marry cannot degree, whether to arrive to be able to include after marriage the defect of the other side and inadequacy. But want check this, still need to enough time gets along.

And this pair of young husband and wife that want a divorce, no matter go up with the mood from love,interact, not quite insufficient development, comprehensive, association time is short also, make the chroma of love insufficient thereby, the base is not firm, bring about emotional foundation not solid.

Should have after marriage include quality. After marrying, both sides of husband and wife does not count on change of the other side to get used to his, want to adjust oneself to get used to the other side however. In the meantime, although need the other side to be changed somewhat, also want successive, notice means method, want to use the means of positive attitude and love, express oneself hope.

And this pair of young husband and wife that had gotten higher education, want to make a divorce, have really besides female viability some outside be deficient in, the male conception that also should overcome old man creed. Below the case that there is the job in both sides, housework is not feminine patent alive, male also can do. Otherwise, the man should marry the wife of a baby-sitter type.

Additional, as the woman's parents, also should notice the pattern of love. After children is grown, should make children independent, cannot monopolize blindly everything. Want to foster filial viability, the problem that the youth should encounter in him processing life as far as possible. Resemble the woman father and mother in article, because intervene too much, trouble is much also. But as husband, go without reason and qualification the educational means of blame elder.

Finally, although marital problem looks seem individual petty thing, but the stability that it matters to a society really. The society manages a household, the society cherishs affection, learn care family, every society member should be had. And face marriage and affection crisis, current, the interference of whole society and intercessory system are defective still, should cause social all circles and the attention of concerned branch.