Place of Afghan marriage interpose is drawn - the sea returns

In Afghanistan this traditional Mohammedan country, the men and women meets scarcely before be engaged, want bilateral parent to exchange the photograph of two people only, understand a situation again, marriage came down surely.

Nevertheless, a such conservative countries also had place of a marital introduction unexpectedly. A few days ago, the reporter was taking curiosity to visit this domestic name is " love is all over the sky " Afghanistan place of first marriage interpose.

In a in 6 buildings narrow office, the reporter saw this dares the first Afghanistan that eats crab " the month is old " -- , the patriarch of marriage interpose place Asadula · cham gentleman. He looks the left and right sides 40 years old, what in be being envisaged with me, differ is, he did not resemble most Afghanistan man in that way robe, wear a suit however recreational outfit.

3 rooms are shared in the office, the decoration inside house is very simple, the most conspicuous is the ornamental of appearance of those two hearts on the wall.

On the tea table in the sitting room, piling up a few files, asadula arranges a data to say to the reporter at the same time at the same time: "' love is all over the sky ' marriage interpose place was last year in October of practice, no matter men and women, do not divide the age, anybody can come here seek a partner, already can oneself come personally, also can pass mail or the means of email will fill in the application form of individual data is sent. After marriage interpose place receives a data, meeting the apiration according to the applicant, or its the data is published go up in newspaper, or search suitable person selected from inside inside data, arrangement both sides meets. Arrangement both sides meets..

So, encounter suiter person selected, how does marriage interpose place arrange both sides to meet? To this detail problem, the answer says Asadula, to show the respect to the female, the photograph that marriage interpose place meets a man commonly gives the lady looks, if the lady feels satisfactory, they can inform that man, arrange two people interview.

"Be nodded as to appointment ground, somebody hopes is to be in the office, but this meeting lets them feel cabined, sometimes we also can arrange them to go dining-room, the fact proves latter effect is betterer. " move of Asadula laugh says.

"Afghan after all thought is manacled too long, want to be liberated completely still need period of time. But want us to continue hard only, with respect to the hall that can more people walk into own marriage, we leave open truly closer also one pace. " Asadula is dye-in-the-wood to this confidence.

I ask Asadula, place of open marriage interpose is mixed with the tradition so lay not the thing of conform to, can bring about when the idle talk broken words of others, asadula says for certain: "From open this marriage uprights up to now, I had encountered the pressure that comes from each respect. Even personage of a few religion finds me, the data that says open on newspaper individual searchs a spouse not to accord with religious tradition, have decency, compel me to shut introductory place. Compel me to shut introductory place..

Hear these, I can't help feeling somewhat touchdown speaks of what Afghan woman place suffers to manacle the blame autonomy that reachs marriage. Approve of ground says Asadula: "This also is my open ' love is all over the sky ' reason. Because suffer old tradition to dominate consuetudinarily all the year round, the position of Afghan female gets very big suppress, the family that happens from this is tragic also without number. Then I from own marriage this respect proceed with, the hope can bring larger own advantageous position to female and all Afghan. The hope can bring larger own advantageous position to female and all Afghan..

Although " love is all over the sky " had not facilitated to be united in wedlock to new personality up to now, but be in " the month is old " people below effort, already a few pairs are asked for marriage person had met, maintaining connection all the time.

Interview finally, I ask Asadula what the greatest cherished desire is, he says none hesitantly: "I had thought early, when 100 pairs of new personality are in we ' love is all over the sky ' when matching next happy knots to connect manage, we are certain oneself are contributive hold exceed banquet of large and collective marriage, let everybody see the marriage of own alternative is how happy! "