In relation of wife and mother, if marital pole is used up can the ground does some of business. A lot of contradiction, can dissolve very easily. But if become the man, won't handle; Can let the contradiction between wife and mother plan become acute. . . . . .
What wife and mother concerns is medium axial belt, it is this part that the son holds husband concurrently. How can have acted this part, can coordinate relation of wife and mother to have to rely on the skill of husband. Small misunderstanding went out between wife and mother occasionally, his word can dissolve contradiction of wife and mother, however also can add fuel to the flames. The wrong word that a few husband often say is below, we analyse their the crux of the problem together.
One, person of “ my Mom is nice, quite good get along, you are sure those who do is beyond the mark. ”
Wrong word reason: Mom is good getting along is to the son character. Your farther-in-law mother and your wife get along certain also and very good, but you and they will surely not get along very harmoniously. Have Jia Yi like you two good friends, they are your diehard followers, but Jia Heding will surely not become a good friend.
Self-criticism: What to ask the circumstance first, show your care to this problem. Must stand in two people's common point of view before the wife, brief analysis the crux of the problem, give out to suggest objectively. At this moment husband must put wife and mother, his profit in a whole to analyse, on mood a little partial oneself wife a bit also just as well.
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