On the world most those who be short of is true perhaps it is to regret medicine, every time the go on an expedition that we search look for to look for for a long time, find one individual betroth a girl lifelong, but the elapse as incident, can discover such or in that way as meaning. “ knows not to listen to old person character to be in an unfavorable situation obviously inside the heart it is before ” , but still do not have complain the “ that does not have regret not to bump south the wall does not turn round! ” . . . . . . The following dharma, for consulting in the sisters in be passionately in love!
The first give up: Do not want to let relatives by marriage prematurely meet
This thinking, bilateral parents met, go was opposite approximately oneself are meddlesome, actually this is extremely big mistake, after each other are familiar, meeting gradually as a result of habits and customs different, generation misunderstanding, more serious meet who cannot bear the sight of, impracticable finally is yourself. Should marry best namely, bilateral relatives by marriage meets again, maintain in polite condition best! After marrying had better meet less also! Common saying says: “ distance produces the United States! ”
The 2nd give up: Do not want shopping preferences of pair of nurturance of prospective husband's family
Cannot wait to love to shop to mother-in-law farther-in-law too in antenuptial festival, but reach him home, do not make a demand to husband.
Long such, can letting what husband is used to think to him Mom, his pa shops gradually is regular job, form the idea that the girl marries a person to be about to be given priority to with husband's family. The both sides when I suggest the festival buys a gift, form a habit easy to handle of the ability after marriage.
The 3rd give up: The too enthusiastic chore that assumes husband's family does not want before marriage
Before marrying assume actively cook, wash clothes, wash the dress to wait for a thing to husband, what the girl should keep certain is missish, can let a mother-in-law think you are right otherwise of her son care, or you are right of their family care! Do appropriately a few, but not too devoted!
The 4th give up: Do not pass the much work that talks about him a married woman's parents' home in husband's family
Saying innocently auditor is intentional, do not want and mother-in-law him refer the thing of a married woman's parents' home, feel dull to talk about teleplay, talk about current affairs. The thing of own home, husband's family knows lesser to had been jumped over! Have sororal brother especially, who did parents give to buy a house, who buys a car etc! Buy a house when you in the future, buy the business such as the car, the mother-in-law can pay close attention to, whether yourself gets a married woman's parents' home aided financially!
The 5th give up: Need not too early meet with husband's family
Feel you return travel good-bye face. After seeing, also do not want all day long to grow in husband's family, can let them feel otherwise you too the relation that cares about their home son, when the girl should carry a point, be about hold.
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