Abstruse the poineering spirit of the science and technology of United States of my esteem, respect and admire, American mixes one net message the spirit that respect property, what I also like them is candid, but the place that I am overcome is very much also. I least of all can the culture of give sb a present that of agree without giving serious thought is them.
I the first time the foreign mother-in-law that sees me, she sends me a towel that brushs a hand and a cookbook, first time of our Chinese wife and mother meets absolutely won't such give sb a present. Arrive christmas, they are covering caddy with respect to big case, there is an urine cup inside, or a candle. No matter our Chinese is much poorer, oneself not beautiful money of be willing to part with or use, pass him part too not the thing that be willing to part with or use has can give kin the friend, real present, solution of care of platoon of real help friend is difficult
I see the gift of foreigner make a heart, they are too rich perhaps, two eave play husband and wife, all the day how much do you pay, how much do I pay to calculate clearly. Spend christmas day, you send me the gift, I send you the gift, big case is opened, a pair of socks, small play art, exclamation after that " too beautiful, too lovely " ! My Chinese husband gives me salary after expenditure, than what this is substantial! Bigger than a of modern husband case is being wrapped with beautiful paper is a colored ribbon sticking a flower, open looking is a toilet soap however, let me touch much! The sort of decorous it is Hesperian of a kind of torment to me the urban person that takes a fancy to compatriots to resemble going sees rural person. Mention this topic, divide with respect to gabble not clear who says.
What do we do, they think incorrect. Take use dinner service for, I lay an egg with the chopstick, carry noodle, knead dough, my modern man is very angry, think I live too coarsely. He asks my knead dough uses knead dough machine, hit an egg to use eggbeater, carry noodle to use carry noodle appropriative broach. Have each use each more as to the knife, 20 a variety of, cut cannot chop, piece cannot cut, and my constant is to use kitchen knife of a China, what is able, he is more angry white face. The fruit cut a skin to be being bitten eat, he also is overcome, must cut small diamonds, eat with broach, and must eat in the morning, if dinner eats, the fruit contains sugar the meeting is indigestible, stock body with adipose form inside. After I marry Chinese man again, our cantaloup is knocked with the hand eat, because of us as a child so eat, be happy! This also is our culture, why must pull with respect to them that one. Their dress is changed every day, wash every day, because,not be dirty, those who want is the faint scent of washing powder; And I like a week to change the clothes, this to modern husband cannot bear. The life is subtle place, it is difference everywhere. Come up against different opinion, he hunchs, come so, I lose armet drive armour. His means is informal you, although he does not force at me, also do not make a noise to be not scolded, but this is more afflictive than make a noise and be being scolded, the sort of decorous be a kind commanding. Under cover our each sticks to his own view! If he wants where to go to, I do not want to go, his face about goes, swing to me " informal you " , chinese husband always is you and he goes to beg at the same place, if you do not go, he himself also won't go, chinese husband can force sometimes a few viewpoints give me, that is each other are belonged to each other, be of one heart and one mind, the complex of join forces of be of one mind. Chinese man is married again after I divorce, live so not tiredly, not need indulges so much established practice against one's will.
Say Chinese enjoys a language metrical beauty
Marrying this with Chinese man is the 3rd my marriage. I learn literature, major heart language learns again after English, marry in Germany and home of Sinology of a Germany, passed 3 years to divorce, married Chinese man again.
This international " internal injury " the club is faceless club, the person that always comes here namely does not sign up for a full name, also pay no attention to each other, I also can not ask of course. Know not to know her full name however, honest not important, her speech, him recall with emotion marriage, have likewise to us inspire.
The person is advanced wisdom animal, have fastening the biggest distinction at low animal is pair of longing that communicate and communicate. Chinese language is a world on the richest can convey all sorts of exquisite emotive languages most, although I am married this modern husband is Sinology home, but the antithesis that Chinese still cannot use to the top of one's bent between I and him, parallelism, be likened to, fictitious, simile and metaphor, as to a matching of both sound and sense in two lines, rhyme more cannot accommodate to sb. Everybody speaks to repeat with very simple word, the lingustic teaching material that the United States has a popularity " English 900 " , lying between a kind of culture actually different race marriage, the language that uses each other won't exceed 900 commonly. The person of brokenhearted to some demand is indifferent to, to me, cannot speak out freely becomes a kind oppressed, because love must have expression, expression just has communication, communication ability is communicated, communication ability is agreed with, had self-identity ability to affirm each other, praise each other down to is admired.
Once I got an a serious illness, in the heart very flimsy, want to cry all the day, modern husband is placatory to mine it is to repeat Iloveyou every day. And the husband of a my old schoolmate will see me, actually I am mixed he not very ripe, do not have the love with deeper what more of course, the old schoolmate that is me holds his husband in the palm to see me. But I and he gets loath to part from each other a little, in the heart that carefree really cannot character watch. When he was faced that day, I cried, without different race marriage, neither one person is outer the country is lone the person of the life is the word that cannot understand me. Of course I and modern husband divorce are the communication because of the language not simply not free, but can say for certain, this is a main reason, because everybody cannot be enjoyed, the beauty that experiences mother tongue of the other side. A linguist says, use the 2nd kind of language beyond him mother tongue, won't exceed the communication capacity of 70% anyhow.
I leave modern man, married man of a China again. No matter I am to get angry to still joke, have come character has go language, no matter be cross verbal swords, still be point at one but abuse another, come delighted. We went to park of Beijing the North sea last year, see the couplet hung on the columns of a hall on so much famous places and historical sites, we are read at the same time, experience at the same time, have " empty having a bosom is static, deep without common Yao " , we two happen to coincide copy it, we can experience the philosophic theory of the Yu Li that ask thing jointly. The beauty of phonic musical sound of Chinese language also is the aesthetic feeling that does not enjoy in other language, especially we are small when fastening, his greeting in the phone, the Chinese language level and oblique tones that I can enjoy him is metrical beautiful, this is the person that experiences this kind of personal experience without different race marriage cannot understand...
The other China wife that takes by episode.
The English of our China woman is again good also be no good, not only it is language itself, literate still the obstacle of setting. I am in China is university English teacher, here the phone opens an account lane is not clear, because of foreign country and China everywhere different. Go to a hospital seeing a doctor, oneself also are done not clear, because the system is too different, "Emergency call " and " emergency call is taken care of " , who is clear? Want to look to be able to see a doctor immediately far from unhealthily, if life danger can go emergency call; Do not have danger to must see a doctor, go emergency call is taken care of; The doctor is 3 months ability looks, such, say the not clear, thing that does not to understand is too much.
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